July 2024 – HarshaRohit

This one is for all the boys out there.

Keep your hand on your heart and reply to this one question? How many times you’ve boasted about your contacts in the transport department and that you never had to go through a driving test! Oh it shows when you blow the horn at red lights and think that a waving hand is equivalent to an indicator.

But why such an out of the blue question, C’mon don’t you want to woo that pretty lass in your neighborhood or the one you’re been chatting on the net for some time now, so dear, the new rule to succeed in your endeavors is to instill in your life some civic sense, bacon the girls are now all eyes and besides chivalry looks , molar ( (may be not always in this order ) They look for a man who knows how to respect law and follow basic society rules.

In any case the basic civic sense always add to your personality , so never think jumping out of the queue will make you look macho or throwing that empty cola can anywhere will enhance you devil may care attitude.

May be some old world myths prompts you to break the social rules and not follow the civic duty to prove your masculinity but haven’t we moved from the barbarian tribe to this civilized form- based on the ethos of following certain society rules and basic civic sense.

So guys now quickly jot down some wooing tips mandatory for this modern age:

Always follow the driving rules (search for that rule booklet given along with the license) and guys racing on the track make you attractive – not along with poor cycle walls and the already frightened cows; by the way swearing other drivers is a ‘passé’

Be a man–open the door for the lady, pull the chair and pay the bill (till she pesters you to pay single-mindedly till death)

Let the public place be actually for public– don’t smoke, don’t involve the unsuspecting people to participate in your private mobile talk (by speaking in uncontrolled decibels).

Remember new theory for the evolved cool dudeis to park the car in the prescribed parking , to actually take pain to search for the bin to throw the trash, and please spitting is sin and pissing publicly can be only pardoned by Christ himself.

Follow these as bible commandment and write to me as you take your impressed dare to that long drive.

BODY LANGUAGE

Do dogs speak? I asked this question to every dog lover who came across me the last week and the single word answer was yes,Sound strange isn’t it, how when the dog doesn’t know any verbal communication language does he speak, the only relevant answer to it is- that he answers his master thru his body language and boy! What a wonderful understanding and rapport they share with each other.But many at times when we humans are communicating with each other we misunderstand each other, leading to misinterpretation and confusion. This is only due to disperancy, between the sentences we deliver [verbal] and gestures we make [non-verbal] -which do not match with each other.

Haven’t we often wondered why even after replying all questions to our best capacity in the interview we were not selected, yes the culprit here again is the wrong body language.

Hence even if we are a naturally good communicator- and just as important, a good listener our skills never reach their full potential unless, we understand and follow right body language.

Research consistently shows that in any message only half of the meaning is conveyed thru the spoken word and the other half comes across in the speaker’s body language.

Hence let’s now look into the tips, which we can utilize into our every day use to improve our body language.

While conversing always maintain eye contact with breaking the gaze by looking sideways occasionally, but never ever look down while talking and nor stare continuously without blinking .
While listening always nod slowly, as rapidly nodding the head leaves an impression of a person being impatient.
Avoid touching the hair again and again, pulling the ears or keeping the hand on the mouth as these can be interpreted as signs of hiding something.
Always give a firm handshake as a ‘dead fish hand shake’ will not advance one’s candidacy, neither will the opposite extreme ‘iron man bone crusher’ grip. Another thing to add to the handshake ritual is – use only one hand, shake one / three times and drop, don’t keep shaking.
For the people to perceive you as a confident person always walk tall with the shoulders and head erect and with a non- hurried and deliberate movement.

Wish you a happy conversation.

BODY LANGUAGE

Haven’t we often wondered why even after replying all questions to our best capacity in the interview we were not selected, yes the culprit here again is the wrong body language.

Hence even if we are a naturally good communicator- and just as important, a good listener our skills never reach their full potential unless, we understand and follow right body language.

Research consistently shows that in any message only half of the meaning is conveyed thru the spoken word and the other half comes across in the speaker’s body language.

Hence let’s now look into the tips, which we can utilize into our every day use to improve our body language.

While conversing always maintain eye contact with breaking the gaze by looking sideways occasionally, but never ever look down while talking and nor stare continuously without blinking .
While listening always nod slowly, as rapidly nodding the head leaves an impression of a person being impatient.
Avoid touching the hair again and again, pulling the ears or keeping the hand on the mouth as these can be interpreted as signs of hiding something.
Always give a firm handshake as a ‘dead fish hand shake’ will not advance one’s candidacy, neither will the opposite extreme ‘iron man bone crusher’ grip. Another thing to add to the handshake ritual is – use only one hand, shake one / three times and drop, don’t keep shaking.
For the people to perceive you as a confident person always walk tall with the shoulders and head erect and with a non- hurried and deliberate movement.

Wish you a happy conversation.

Month: July 2024

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